Dear IAB Readers,
This was sent in by an IAB Reader.
I met and fell in love with Prisca and I have done everything possible to make her comfortable. She attests to this to her friends that I am the best thing that ever happened to her.
I met her in the church circles where the sanctity of the matrimonial bed is
preached and God's punishment of violators clearly stated.
She has also told me that she is a virgin and that she wish to remain that way until her wedding night.
I have been in to a couple of se*ual relationships in the past and for a guy like me, it has been difficult to abstain completely until I am married but I have tried to do so because I do not want to lose her.
We have been to see her Pastor and our parents to disclose our relationship which has only received the "no s*x approval" from both sides.
However, something happened that got me thinking. We had gone for a picnic at a beach and in the course of undressing, I mistakenly saw that her br**st are sagged so much that it falls on her tummy.
I am a guy that likes it firm and I know that I cannot cope with it the way it is.
How do I tell her I am no longer interested in her any more because I have heard my fair share of women and relationships and I do not want to be unfaithful to whosoever my wife would be.
What do I do? What do I say to her? I have tactically been avoiding her but I need to tell her how I feel? How do I say it?
Please help me with some advise.
