From a female IAB Associate.
We had our courtship for 9 years and never had any sexual
relationships during this period. I did not bother because we are Born Again Christians.
We talked about everything and anything but sex.
We did not go for any medical tests before our wedding.
Leke and I have been married for 4 years and we are yet to have
any child.
We have been having sex but with condoms. Each time we want
to make love he puts on a condom and he will always refuse to discuss why he can not
make love to me without a condom.
I have tried to make him change without success. To make
matters worse his mother is threatening to throw me out and bring in a fertile
woman for her son.
My husband has also warned me never to tell anyone that we
have been using Condoms that he will divorce me should anyone find out.
I don’t know what to do. I am getting tired of being harassed
by people especially his family. What do I do? Should I leave the
marriage? I need to get pregnant and have children.
Please advice.
